Why do Orthodox women feel that they're superior to Christian men?

I asked a question about this OJ woman contradicting herself by not shaking my hand when I first met her, and then asking for my help getting up after she had tripped. Some answers said that it all depends on who offers, ie if I offer my hand, then she can reject, but if she offers, I should accept. That is total hypocrisy. I am not going to help her if she says she can't have physical contact because of her religion. Serves her right.